So here's how I approached opening up about my fetish last night to a female friend.. she is at uni studying to be a school teacher, 25, known her since she was 22. We have history together. People think she's innocent as she looks it, but hey.. she's only human!
Due to media and societal conditioning, women are portrayed as frigid, when both sexes equally enjoy foreplay and fantasies. Otherwise there would be no drive to reproduce and we would not exist(!!)
All depends on how you frame what you are saying in any given situation. For example frame asking a girl on a date in a creepy way, or in a socially savvy way? Big difference.
We met up just the two of us and started light conversation and then I steered it towards our first time we slept together after afternoon coffee while planning to make dinner at my place. I said how naughty it was and she said how guys don't understand that a girl loves excitement: not sitting there hearing about your achievements. Women are career driven too, they don't care what you do: so long as you are genuine, nice, and not a psycho.
She appreciated me openly talking about the fetish, as she found it more weird when I would look over at parties when she pops balloons. She admitted she likes computer games where you destroy things, and actuallly LOVES stepping on balloons, and the power and stress relief it gives her, so now I've opened up, she doesn't find it uncomfortable anymore, and is willing to burst balloons for me to enjoy between us even though we both have partners.. for reward in return.
It's the secrecy that is uncomfortable as people have intuition! So try it, hope you all have fun with this!!
Due to media and societal conditioning, women are portrayed as frigid, when both sexes equally enjoy foreplay and fantasies. Otherwise there would be no drive to reproduce and we would not exist(!!)
All depends on how you frame what you are saying in any given situation. For example frame asking a girl on a date in a creepy way, or in a socially savvy way? Big difference.
We met up just the two of us and started light conversation and then I steered it towards our first time we slept together after afternoon coffee while planning to make dinner at my place. I said how naughty it was and she said how guys don't understand that a girl loves excitement: not sitting there hearing about your achievements. Women are career driven too, they don't care what you do: so long as you are genuine, nice, and not a psycho.
She appreciated me openly talking about the fetish, as she found it more weird when I would look over at parties when she pops balloons. She admitted she likes computer games where you destroy things, and actuallly LOVES stepping on balloons, and the power and stress relief it gives her, so now I've opened up, she doesn't find it uncomfortable anymore, and is willing to burst balloons for me to enjoy between us even though we both have partners.. for reward in return.
It's the secrecy that is uncomfortable as people have intuition! So try it, hope you all have fun with this!!
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