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Old 27-12-2020, 05:42 PM
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Default Holy crap... I did it. I told my wife...
Like many others here, my interest is born out of childhood instilled fear. Once puberty hit, and hormones mixed with the fear part of my lizard brain and I found that I found balloons sexually stimulating it was met (internally) with nothing but shame... My wife has long known about my fear, but the shame has kept me from sharing my interest.

Fast forward way too many years and last night I finally got up the courage to tell her that I found women playing with balloons incredibly arousing. I cannot believe I finally did it and I am somewhat upset I waited so long because of so much deep seated fear/resentment/shame. My wife was awesome about it, she said she was super glad that I let her know, and that she was always with me and I had no need to feel ashamed for liking something.

I don't know when we'll actually do any sexual play with balloons, but it is a HUGE weight off my chest to simply have told her and to have her acceptance.

So one thing out of 2020 has not been a complete dumpster fire.

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Old 27-12-2020, 11:48 PM
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Nice.

Btw, I use Arch.
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Old 28-12-2020, 05:57 AM
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That's great to hear. Coming out to loved ones about something very close and private can be very scary. Don't press for balloon play because it can cause your wife to feel like she is second place to the balloons. Which leads to all sorts of other issues. Talk about it. It helps. My wife doesn't play with me which sucks. She does like me using a 260Q in her, but she won't do anything else. I like to blame it on our living situation and hold onto the hope that things will change.

Sorry for the long winded post. Congrats on telling her and her being accepting!
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Old 28-12-2020, 10:29 AM
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Congratulations dude! Now have fun
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Old 28-12-2020, 02:22 PM
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That's nice to hear man! ^^ I cant imagine how scared you must have been to tell her, but her reaction sounds awesome. And who knows, maybe your wife will surprise you one day with some balloon fun. And even if not just her support sounds great enough as it is
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Old 28-12-2020, 08:08 PM
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That great news I remember telling my partner and how scared I was about her reactions. probably time to order from Balloons United seeing that it's now open again.
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Old 01-01-2021, 11:19 PM
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Great to hear. I just recently disclosed my love of balloons to my wife as well. We are very close and have a fantastic relationship, but I still worried what her reaction would be. She was pretty positive about it but was hurt by the fact I had kept my secret from her for so long. But she is intrigued and wants to get involved in some balloon fun. I should have told her long ago!
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Old 03-01-2021, 12:43 AM
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Congratulations, it is a great step in your relation.
I still say, that telling my girlfriend about my balloon fetish was the greatest idea of my relation and almost my life, it just turned my sexuality and sex in general to a new level of fun and excitement, seriously I will always be thankful to god cause he let me told that to my gf.
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Old 03-01-2021, 08:37 PM
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So happy for you guys, that you have been able to do that...

Any advice on starting that conversation? I am really worried that my girlfriend (soon wife) could reject the idea when I just straight-up tell her.
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Old 04-01-2021, 03:39 AM
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just try to give it its respective space. Try to go slowly, remember that it will be a whole new experience for your wife and sometimes that can be overwhelming for anyone.
Always advance at the pace of your wife, do not pressure her, let her find alone the characteristic that she likes the most of the balloons, once she identifies that and feels comfortable, you can move a little faster, but never pressure her to do something that he does not want.
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